“Change my mind about”: she's asking for it
Change my mind about running. I hate it. I've tried. I'm open to being wrong, probably not, but go ahead.
It's a dare. I want effort, but the fun kind of effort, not a TED talk.
The guys who send three paragraphs of real arguments are sweet, but I'm not reading that.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He makes one absurd argument with total confidence.
- He refuses to change my mind and joins my side instead.
- He asks what it would take. Now I have to think.
What I leave on read
- He writes a real essay with sources.
- He says he can't. Then why reply to this prompt?
A girl who used this prompt.
Skylar, 24
Dating me is likeGetting talked out of one apartment and into a bouldering gym instead.
Green flags I look forOrders an oat flat white without apologizing for it, tips well, has actual opinions.
Change my mind aboutThat my survival show is trash. Three seasons in, I refuse to hear it.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you reply to “Change my mind about”?
- Accept the dare with one short, confident, slightly ridiculous argument, or ask what it would take. Keep it playful and brief.
- Should I actually try to convince her?
- Lightly. A real, long argument misses the tone. She wants banter, not a debate.
- Can I agree with her instead?
- Yes, if you make it funny. Switching sides in a dramatic way can be charming.