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“Never have I ever”: react, then ask

Never have I ever been on a plane. People are always shocked, which is kind of why I wrote it.

I want a reaction, sure. But I want one that leads to a question, not just a gasp.

Judgment kills it. So does a guy telling me all the places I need to fly to.

What I notice.

What gets a reply

  • He reacts with fun disbelief and asks why.
  • He shares his own never have I ever that's just as surprising.
  • He asks what I'd pick for the first time.

What I leave on read

  • He lectures me about what I'm missing.
  • He just says wow.

Your turn.

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Questions

How do you respond to “Never have I ever” on a dating app?
React with playful surprise, then ask a question: why, or what she'd do first. A reaction alone is a dead end.
Should I share my own?
It can be fun if it's equally surprising. Keep hers at the center.
What turns her off?
Judgment or a list of things she must do. She shared it lightly, keep it light.