“Never have I ever”: react, then ask
Never have I ever been on a plane. People are always shocked, which is kind of why I wrote it.
I want a reaction, sure. But I want one that leads to a question, not just a gasp.
Judgment kills it. So does a guy telling me all the places I need to fly to.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He reacts with fun disbelief and asks why.
- He shares his own never have I ever that's just as surprising.
- He asks what I'd pick for the first time.
What I leave on read
- He lectures me about what I'm missing.
- He just says wow.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you respond to “Never have I ever” on a dating app?
- React with playful surprise, then ask a question: why, or what she'd do first. A reaction alone is a dead end.
- Should I share my own?
- It can be fun if it's equally surprising. Keep hers at the center.
- What turns her off?
- Judgment or a list of things she must do. She shared it lightly, keep it light.