Opening on her unusual skills
I can fold a fitted sheet perfectly. It's my one party trick and nobody believes me.
The whole prompt is basically asking to be challenged. Prove it, how, since when. That's the energy I want.
What I get a lot is guys listing their own skills in response. I asked nobody.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He challenges me to prove it. Now there's a reason to keep talking.
- He asks how I learned such a specific thing.
- He's impressed in a funny, exaggerated way.
What I leave on read
- He lists his unusual skills instead.
- He says that's not unusual. Deflating.
Your turn.
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- How do you reply to “Unusual skills”?
- Challenge her or ask how she learned it. The prompt is built for a playful back and forth, and a light dare is the easiest way in.
- Should I mention my own unusual skill?
- Only if it creates a fun contest. Otherwise save it for later.
- What if her skill is actually boring?
- Treat it like it's impressive anyway, with a wink. It's more fun than pointing out that it isn't.