TextherHer biggest risk: ask about the moment
I moved to a new city without knowing anyone. It was terrifying and the best thing I did.
This one is personal. I like replies that notice that, a little respect with a little curiosity.
What I don't love is a guy who instantly tells me about his bigger risk.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He asks about the moment I decided.
- He asks if I'd do it again. It's a real question.
- He's warm without being over the top.
What I leave on read
- He one-ups it with his own risk.
- He calls me brave and stops there.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you reply to “Biggest risk I've taken”?
- Be curious about how she decided or how it turned out. It's a personal answer, so a real question works better than praise.
- Can I share my own risk?
- Later. In the first text, keep the focus on hers so it doesn't turn into a contest.
- Is this too serious for a first message?
- No, it's a great opening if your tone is warm and light. She chose to share it.