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She told you what she won't shut up about

Hot yoga. Genuinely. My friends are tired of hearing about it. So when a match asks, I'm thrilled, because I finally have a fresh audience.

This prompt is me pointing at a door and saying please open it. And still, a lot of guys walk past it to comment on something else.

You don't have to love the thing. You just have to let me talk about it.

What I notice.

What gets a reply

  • He asks the question a total beginner would ask. I love explaining.
  • He's playfully skeptical about the obsession and wants me to convince him.
  • He asks what got me into it. Instant long reply.

What I leave on read

  • He says he doesn't get the hype and stops there.
  • He one-ups me with his own obsession before asking about mine.

Your turn.

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Questions

How do you reply to “I won't shut up about”?
Give her the stage. A curious question about the thing she named is the easiest reply you'll ever get, because she already wants to talk about it.
What if I know nothing about her topic?
Even better. A genuine beginner question gives her room to explain, and people like explaining the things they love.
Can I disagree with her obsession?
Playful skepticism works if you're clearly open to being convinced. Flat dismissal ends it.