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What to do with “I go crazy for”

Street tacos with a little emoji. That's the whole answer. I love them, I'm not trying to make a statement.

The fun reply is someone who has an opinion. Which place, which kind, whether I'm wrong. Food and small obsessions are the easiest way to start arguing in a cute way.

The boring reply is someone telling me he loves them too. Great. Now what?

What I notice.

What gets a reply

  • He has a strong, slightly unhinged opinion about the thing and asks for mine.
  • He asks for my ranking or my one spot. People love being asked for their expertise.
  • He's specific. Not tacos in general, one kind of taco.

What I leave on read

  • He says same. Same is not a conversation.
  • He immediately invites me to go get them. We don't know each other's last names.

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Questions

How do you reply to “I go crazy for” on Hinge?
Have an opinion about the thing she named, or ask her for hers. Agreeing that you love it too ends the topic before it starts.
Should I invite her to the thing she likes right away?
It's usually too fast for message one. Talk about it first. If the chat goes well, the invite feels natural later.
Is teasing her about her answer okay?
Friendly disagreement about a food or hobby is some of the easiest banter there is. Keep it about the thing, not about her taste as a person.