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What to do with her love language

Quality time, but also food. Mostly food. I wrote it half as a joke because everyone takes love languages so seriously.

When someone replies, I can tell if they're going to take it too literally. I don't need a speech about acts of service.

What I like is a guy who picks up on the part that's funny and plays with it.

What I notice.

What gets a reply

  • He picks up on the joke in my answer and runs with it.
  • He asks about the way I show it, not just the way I want it.
  • He admits his own love language in a self-aware way.

What I leave on read

  • He promises to speak my love language fluently. Please.
  • He explains the love languages to me.

Your turn.

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Questions

How do you reply to “My love language is”?
Stay light. Pick up on how she phrased it, especially if there's a joke in it, and ask about her side of it. Promising to meet her love language reads as a line.
Should I tell her my love language?
A quick, self-aware mention can work. Don't make the first text a comparison chart.
Why do guys get ignored on this prompt?
The most common reply is a promise, and she sees it all the time. It's also hard to answer.