What to do with her love language
Quality time, but also food. Mostly food. I wrote it half as a joke because everyone takes love languages so seriously.
When someone replies, I can tell if they're going to take it too literally. I don't need a speech about acts of service.
What I like is a guy who picks up on the part that's funny and plays with it.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He picks up on the joke in my answer and runs with it.
- He asks about the way I show it, not just the way I want it.
- He admits his own love language in a self-aware way.
What I leave on read
- He promises to speak my love language fluently. Please.
- He explains the love languages to me.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you reply to “My love language is”?
- Stay light. Pick up on how she phrased it, especially if there's a joke in it, and ask about her side of it. Promising to meet her love language reads as a line.
- Should I tell her my love language?
- A quick, self-aware mention can work. Don't make the first text a comparison chart.
- Why do guys get ignored on this prompt?
- The most common reply is a promise, and she sees it all the time. It's also hard to answer.