She wrote what she wants. Don't just raise your hand.
I want someone who texts back in less than a business week. It's funny and also, genuinely, please.
What I'm really doing is naming a pattern I'm tired of. A good reply shows he noticed that, not that he wants a gold star.
Raising your hand and saying that's me isn't it. Just be it for one message.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He's funny about the pain behind my answer, gently.
- He asks what's the most extreme version of the opposite I've experienced.
- His message itself shows the quality without mentioning it.
What I leave on read
- He says he's that someone. Everyone is, apparently.
- He adds a list of what he wants back.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you respond to “I want someone who”?
- Don't nominate yourself. Engage with what she's tired of, with a little humor, or ask about it. Let your message show the trait instead of claiming it.
- Is it okay to say what I want too?
- Not in the first text. It turns her prompt into a checklist exchange.
- Is this prompt a red flag?
- No. It's one of the most honest prompts. She's telling you exactly what she values.