TextherWhat she wants when she lists her simple pleasures
It's a list. Iced latte, clean sheets, my dog. I'm not being deep, I'm telling you what makes a normal Tuesday better.
The list is kind of a test without me meaning it to be. Did you read all of it or just the first thing? Can you tell which one I actually care about most?
I love when someone notices the weird one in the middle. I don't love being told we have so much in common because he also likes coffee.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He notices the item that doesn't fit with the others and asks about that one.
- He ranks my list or argues with the order. Playful disagreement gets a reply.
- He asks a question that only makes sense if he read every item.
What I leave on read
- He lists his own simple pleasures back at me. Now I have homework.
- He comments on the first item only, the one everyone comments on.
A girl who used this prompt.
Ruby, 28
My simple pleasuresoat flat whites and my cat miso pretending he doesn't love me lol
Dating me is likeliving with a reality show villain 3 seasons deep who somehow thinks she's the hero
Typical Sundaybouldering, vintage shopping, then negotiating rent with miso. he's winning
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- How do you respond to someone's simple pleasures on Hinge?
- Read the whole list and pick the item that surprised you, not the first one. A question about that one thing works better than agreeing with everything.
- Should I say we have things in common?
- Only if it leads somewhere. Saying you also like coffee closes the topic. Asking something about her version of it opens one.
- Is it weird to tease her list?
- Light teasing about the order or one odd item usually lands. Mocking the whole list does not. Keep it about the list, not about her.