TextherHer friends ask her for advice. So can you.
My friends ask me for advice about restaurants. I'm the one with the list. It's a whole job.
Honestly the best reply is a guy who asks me for advice, a real or a silly one. I light up.
The worst is a guy who tries to prove he knows more about it than me.
What I notice.
What gets a reply
- He asks for my advice on something specific, even a fake dilemma.
- He tests my expertise in a fun, respectful way.
- He asks what the weirdest request from a friend has been.
What I leave on read
- He corrects me on my own topic.
- He says his friends ask him about the same thing.
Your turn.
Three new girls today. Pick a prompt, send what you would really send, and see who replies and what she thought when she read it. Free, no download.
Text three girls nowQuestions
- What do you say to “My friends ask me for advice about”?
- Ask her for advice. It's the most natural reply, and it lets her be the expert, which feels good.
- Can I challenge her expertise?
- Playfully, yes. Actually correcting her in the first text is a turn-off.
- Is a made-up dilemma okay?
- Yes, as long as it's obviously playful. It gives her an easy and fun way to reply.